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—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

I’m not representing your voice that made no sense. My reading comprehension skills are not low I interpreted your post as it was and I went through all that you put up in your post there was no interpretation.
How do you know if I am american or not and why do you poorly spell the  word woman? you sound stupid. So you are offended and angered at the fact that the men you dated didn’t want you to do anything for them? why is that a problem? I’ve seen women who don’t want men do anything for them also why are you not angry or offended by that?. I’ve seen feminist express that women are helpless and in need of constant care than anyone else making women look like victims your entire paragraph expresses that.
I never said you didn’t need feminism where in my entire statement did I say you don’t need feminism. Women since before feminism actually had many rights including the right to own land and property and today have more rights than men in many areas, historically women have outmatched men in education and had higher graduation rates and even before feminism had many advantages over men. Before America even existed women have held political and social power. 
Rape culture does not exist, you are just fueling the paranoid attitude feminist give women, do you know what the word culture means? just because people do things that are immoral it doesn’t mean that it is accepted in our culture and society without punishment and consequence if you want to talk about that you can be murdered in your own house does that mean there is murder culture? no it does not. 
I don’t give a flying fuck about how many times you went nude or where you went to take the picture what statement are you trying to make by doing that just for a couple notes on a website? 
Now you are just talking out of your ass, when did I ever deny the existence of misogyny I just simply said when has society and our culture expressed by definition a hatred towards women? Male workers are more valued because most male workers are willing to work under more dangerous conditions and for longer hours even at risk for their lives. You are a idiot if you think sexualization only affects women it affects both men as well people who are homosexual also fuel the sexulatizion or both men and women everything isn’t a gender issue where women are the only victims, men are also degraded.  
Anarchy is a flawed political belief not everyone is fit to be a leader humans will always look towards an authority figure than can lead them in organization they will not become individual leaders for themselves human history can prove that this is true as well as human psychology can prove this to be true. 

All of your pporly-constructed arguments are bullshit, you are obviously red. And unlike you, I spell the word properly. I’m no “woman”, I am a womyn. You have provided no sources for your claims, and they all sound unresearched, why should I take you seriously?
thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

I’m not representing your voice that made no sense. My reading comprehension skills are not low I interpreted your post as it was and I went through all that you put up in your post there was no interpretation.
How do you know if I am american or not and why do you poorly spell the  word woman? you sound stupid. So you are offended and angered at the fact that the men you dated didn’t want you to do anything for them? why is that a problem? I’ve seen women who don’t want men do anything for them also why are you not angry or offended by that?. I’ve seen feminist express that women are helpless and in need of constant care than anyone else making women look like victims your entire paragraph expresses that.
I never said you didn’t need feminism where in my entire statement did I say you don’t need feminism. Women since before feminism actually had many rights including the right to own land and property and today have more rights than men in many areas, historically women have outmatched men in education and had higher graduation rates and even before feminism had many advantages over men. Before America even existed women have held political and social power. 
Rape culture does not exist, you are just fueling the paranoid attitude feminist give women, do you know what the word culture means? just because people do things that are immoral it doesn’t mean that it is accepted in our culture and society without punishment and consequence if you want to talk about that you can be murdered in your own house does that mean there is murder culture? no it does not. 
I don’t give a flying fuck about how many times you went nude or where you went to take the picture what statement are you trying to make by doing that just for a couple notes on a website? 
Now you are just talking out of your ass, when did I ever deny the existence of misogyny I just simply said when has society and our culture expressed by definition a hatred towards women? Male workers are more valued because most male workers are willing to work under more dangerous conditions and for longer hours even at risk for their lives. You are a idiot if you think sexualization only affects women it affects both men as well people who are homosexual also fuel the sexulatizion or both men and women everything isn’t a gender issue where women are the only victims, men are also degraded.  
Anarchy is a flawed political belief not everyone is fit to be a leader humans will always look towards an authority figure than can lead them in organization they will not become individual leaders for themselves human history can prove that this is true as well as human psychology can prove this to be true. 

All of your pporly-constructed arguments are bullshit, you are obviously red. And unlike you, I spell the word properly. I’m no “woman”, I am a womyn. You have provided no sources for your claims, and they all sound unresearched, why should I take you seriously?
thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

I’m not representing your voice that made no sense. My reading comprehension skills are not low I interpreted your post as it was and I went through all that you put up in your post there was no interpretation.
How do you know if I am american or not and why do you poorly spell the  word woman? you sound stupid. So you are offended and angered at the fact that the men you dated didn’t want you to do anything for them? why is that a problem? I’ve seen women who don’t want men do anything for them also why are you not angry or offended by that?. I’ve seen feminist express that women are helpless and in need of constant care than anyone else making women look like victims your entire paragraph expresses that.
I never said you didn’t need feminism where in my entire statement did I say you don’t need feminism. Women since before feminism actually had many rights including the right to own land and property and today have more rights than men in many areas, historically women have outmatched men in education and had higher graduation rates and even before feminism had many advantages over men. Before America even existed women have held political and social power. 
Rape culture does not exist, you are just fueling the paranoid attitude feminist give women, do you know what the word culture means? just because people do things that are immoral it doesn’t mean that it is accepted in our culture and society without punishment and consequence if you want to talk about that you can be murdered in your own house does that mean there is murder culture? no it does not. 
I don’t give a flying fuck about how many times you went nude or where you went to take the picture what statement are you trying to make by doing that just for a couple notes on a website? 
Now you are just talking out of your ass, when did I ever deny the existence of misogyny I just simply said when has society and our culture expressed by definition a hatred towards women? Male workers are more valued because most male workers are willing to work under more dangerous conditions and for longer hours even at risk for their lives. You are a idiot if you think sexualization only affects women it affects both men as well people who are homosexual also fuel the sexulatizion or both men and women everything isn’t a gender issue where women are the only victims, men are also degraded.  
Anarchy is a flawed political belief not everyone is fit to be a leader humans will always look towards an authority figure than can lead them in organization they will not become individual leaders for themselves human history can prove that this is true as well as human psychology can prove this to be true. 

All of your pporly-constructed arguments are bullshit, you are obviously red. And unlike you, I spell the word properly. I’m no “woman”, I am a womyn. You have provided no sources for your claims, and they all sound unresearched, why should I take you seriously?
thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

I’m not representing your voice that made no sense. My reading comprehension skills are not low I interpreted your post as it was and I went through all that you put up in your post there was no interpretation.
How do you know if I am american or not and why do you poorly spell the  word woman? you sound stupid. So you are offended and angered at the fact that the men you dated didn’t want you to do anything for them? why is that a problem? I’ve seen women who don’t want men do anything for them also why are you not angry or offended by that?. I’ve seen feminist express that women are helpless and in need of constant care than anyone else making women look like victims your entire paragraph expresses that.
I never said you didn’t need feminism where in my entire statement did I say you don’t need feminism. Women since before feminism actually had many rights including the right to own land and property and today have more rights than men in many areas, historically women have outmatched men in education and had higher graduation rates and even before feminism had many advantages over men. Before America even existed women have held political and social power. 
Rape culture does not exist, you are just fueling the paranoid attitude feminist give women, do you know what the word culture means? just because people do things that are immoral it doesn’t mean that it is accepted in our culture and society without punishment and consequence if you want to talk about that you can be murdered in your own house does that mean there is murder culture? no it does not. 
I don’t give a flying fuck about how many times you went nude or where you went to take the picture what statement are you trying to make by doing that just for a couple notes on a website? 
Now you are just talking out of your ass, when did I ever deny the existence of misogyny I just simply said when has society and our culture expressed by definition a hatred towards women? Male workers are more valued because most male workers are willing to work under more dangerous conditions and for longer hours even at risk for their lives. You are a idiot if you think sexualization only affects women it affects both men as well people who are homosexual also fuel the sexulatizion or both men and women everything isn’t a gender issue where women are the only victims, men are also degraded.  
Anarchy is a flawed political belief not everyone is fit to be a leader humans will always look towards an authority figure than can lead them in organization they will not become individual leaders for themselves human history can prove that this is true as well as human psychology can prove this to be true. 

All of your pporly-constructed arguments are bullshit, you are obviously red. And unlike you, I spell the word properly. I’m no “woman”, I am a womyn. You have provided no sources for your claims, and they all sound unresearched, why should I take you seriously?

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!

Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 

so basically you need feminism because

>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 

so feminism is needed because men are being nice.

>capable of thinking for yourself

That has nothing to do with feminism

You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..

>misogyny: basically the hatred of women

when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?

Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.

I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?

Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.

And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.

You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.

Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

I’m not representing your voice that made no sense. My reading comprehension skills are not low I interpreted your post as it was and I went through all that you put up in your post there was no interpretation.

How do you know if I am american or not and why do you poorly spell the  word woman? you sound stupid. So you are offended and angered at the fact that the men you dated didn’t want you to do anything for them? why is that a problem? I’ve seen women who don’t want men do anything for them also why are you not angry or offended by that?. I’ve seen feminist express that women are helpless and in need of constant care than anyone else making women look like victims your entire paragraph expresses that.

I never said you didn’t need feminism where in my entire statement did I say you don’t need feminism. Women since before feminism actually had many rights including the right to own land and property and today have more rights than men in many areas, historically women have outmatched men in education and had higher graduation rates and even before feminism had many advantages over men. Before America even existed women have held political and social power. 

Rape culture does not exist, you are just fueling the paranoid attitude feminist give women, do you know what the word culture means? just because people do things that are immoral it doesn’t mean that it is accepted in our culture and society without punishment and consequence if you want to talk about that you can be murdered in your own house does that mean there is murder culture? no it does not. 

I don’t give a flying fuck about how many times you went nude or where you went to take the picture what statement are you trying to make by doing that just for a couple notes on a website? 

Now you are just talking out of your ass, when did I ever deny the existence of misogyny I just simply said when has society and our culture expressed by definition a hatred towards women? Male workers are more valued because most male workers are willing to work under more dangerous conditions and for longer hours even at risk for their lives. You are a idiot if you think sexualization only affects women it affects both men as well people who are homosexual also fuel the sexulatizion or both men and women everything isn’t a gender issue where women are the only victims, men are also degraded.  

Anarchy is a flawed political belief not everyone is fit to be a leader humans will always look towards an authority figure than can lead them in organization they will not become individual leaders for themselves human history can prove that this is true as well as human psychology can prove this to be true. 

All of your pporly-constructed arguments are bullshit, you are obviously red. And unlike you, I spell the word properly. I’m no “woman”, I am a womyn. You have provided no sources for your claims, and they all sound unresearched, why should I take you seriously?

Educating a Friend: The "Friendzone"

  • Me:

    So, let's say that you're at school and you see a guy you know. I mean, you guys talk every once in a while and he's pretty cool, but you're not like friends or anything. You just talk to him every once in a while.

  • Guy Friend:

    What's his name?

  • Me:

    I don't know. Frank?

  • Guy Friend:

    No.

  • Me:

    Okay, fine. His name is Will. Okay?

  • Guy Friend:

    I don't think it really suits him, but okay.

  • Me:

    ...So anyway, you're at school during lunchtime and you see Will. So, you notice Will's not eating anything. That's when you realize that Will has no lunch, no money for lunch, and no way of getting either. He's just sitting there like he normally would. He's not acting any differently and he's not asking anyone for anything. Not money, not a fry, not even a salt packet, but you know he's gotta be hungry. So, what do you do?

  • Guy Friend:

    Do I have any money?

  • Me:

    Yeah. You have enough for you and another meal.

  • Guy Friend:

    Duh, I buy him lunch.

  • Me:

    Okay, cool. So, like you said, you buy him lunch. You buy your lunch and you buy his lunch and you go over and hand it to him. And, he says, "Wow. You know, that's really nice of you, but I wasn't gonna ask anyone for lunch. I was probably just gonna wait until I got home to eat." And, then you say--

  • Guy Friend:

    Nah, it's cool.

  • Me:

    Exactly. You say, "Nah, it's cool. I'm just being nice. It's a gift." And, Will says, "You know, that's awesome. You're really nice, bro." And, after that, you guys start hanging out. You guys are like really good buds. You are always hanging out and laughing and just having a good time. So, you guys are friends for a few months, and it's tons of fun. Then, one day, you go up to Will and you say, "Hey, Will, you know, I've been thinking, and I kinda want that five bucks."

  • Guy Friend:

    What five bucks?

  • Me:

    Hold on. I'm getting there. So, Will says, "What five bucks?" To which, you reply, "Well, we've been hanging out for a long time and it's been really fun, but like, I've done a lot of really nice things for you. Like, I'm always nice to you and I always listen and do things you wanna do, so I was thinking that because I've been so nice, you should pay me back that five bucks I spent to get your lunch right before we started really hanging out."

  • Guy Friend:

    What? Why would I--

  • Me:

    I'm not done yet. So, then Will looks kinda hurt and he says, "But I thought you were just being nice. I thought that was just a gift." So, you say, "Whether or not it was a gift, don't you think you kinda owe me that five bucks since I've been so nice to you?" And, Will says, "No. I don't think I owe you that!" And you get mad, so you say, "Well, I think that you do, so I think you're being really shitty and stuck up about this and I feel like I've been completely wronged."

  • Guy Friend:

    Oh, my God. That's so fucked up of me. I would never do that to Will. Will was nice. We were buds. That's way screwed.

  • Me:

    I know, right? Hey, just wondering, have you ever heard of this fictional place called "The Friendzone?"

  • Guy Friend:

    Well, yeah, but...

  • Guy Friend:

    ...

  • Guy Friend:

    ...

  • Guy Friend:

    oh

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.
thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.
thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.
thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!
—Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 
so basically you need feminism because
>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 
so feminism is needed because men are being nice.
>capable of thinking for yourself
That has nothing to do with feminism
You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..
>misogyny: basically the hatred of women
when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?
Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.
I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?
Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.
And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.
You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.
Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

thesmarterside:

nocturnuslibertus:

Images free for distribution. Rock on, Feminists!

Nocturnus

I say I don’t need feminism because it does not work for me and it hasn’t worked for the past decade, it has done nothing. 

so basically you need feminism because

>chivalry: a act in which men are being kind or loyal or moral. 

so feminism is needed because men are being nice.

>capable of thinking for yourself

That has nothing to do with feminism

You can only victimize yourself no one can make you a victim..

>misogyny: basically the hatred of women

when did our culture ever hate women? when did anyone hate women socially? when did anyone express hatred towards women in politics if there are also women in politics?

Why are you naked what does that have to do with anything no one is going to rape you in your own goddamn house.. try going out in the street alone at night in a shady area naked.

I don’t care what you say you don’t need. I haven’t represented your voice, so don’t try to represent mine. And obviously you lack basic reading comprehension skills if that is how you interpreted my post. So poorly interpreted.

I’ve found, that many American men find it offensive for womyn to  “take charge”. In my time where I was dating men, many of them were irritated when I did things like pulling out chairs, opening doors, or carrying things for them. They basically told me to stop (“because they weren’t pussies”). Chivalry is that dominance complex, where womyn are seen as helpless and infantile, and so they are treated with extra-special “care”. If they interpret femininity as helplessness and weakness, then I want no part in it. Why would they do something to other people, if they don’t want it to be done to them?

Ahhhh, the old “yew dunt need teh feminizhum tew think 4 ursalf!!1!11!!!” bullshit. How would you know…? You wouldn’t. Thanks to Feminism I have the (almost) equal opportunity to receive the same education men do in this country. Girls in other countries…? Not so much.

And finally, rape culture. First of all, someone could actually *break* into my house and rape, rob, or murder me. Nearly everyone on the planet risks that. Secondly, this picture wasn’t taken anywhere near outside my home. It was taken in the shade of the old run-room (where people have parties outside) in the projects where my friend lives. I stood against the fountain wall and took this you fucking moron. I’ve been naked and topless outside numerous times, but you’re to busy building immunity to the truth whilst shoving your head further up your ass to recognize.

You deny the existence of misogyny, and yet it constantly presents culturally, socially, and economically. Economically = capitalism. The valuing of male labour and power. Socially = the hypersexualization of womyn, the numerous forms of the degradation of womyn, etc.

Since you oppose anarchy, there is obviously no reason for me to try to reason with someone like you. Obviously if you believe that human beings are incapable of leading themselves, we should not have any conversations and avoid one another avidly.

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